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Thursday, April 25, 2013

101 Things-To-Do When The Church As We Know It Is Gone*


*We tend to procrastinate, so let's get started now.

 
1.       Pray More.
2.       Learn Scripture.
3.       Take. Bless. Break. Give.
4.       Look at People.
5.       Leave the Building.
6.       Be Open Hearted.
7.       Risk Judgment.
8.       Take a Stand.
9.       Voice a Concern.
10.    Meet a Need.
11.    Visit a Grave.
12.    Stop.
13.    Listen to Something Difficult.
14.    Savor Joy.
15.    Sing a Song.
16.    Forgive Yourself for Something.
17.    Recognize Noise.
18.    Give Something Away.
19.    Take a Chance on Someone.
20.    Share Your Knowledge.
21.    Help a Kid.
22.    Conserve Resources.
23.    Take a Nap.
24.    Protect Someone/Something Vulnerable.
25.    Go Somewhere Else.
26.    Give Extravagantly.
27.    Worry Less.
28.    Be Intentional More.
29.    Confront Injustice.
30.    Celebrate Accomplishments.
31.    Take Time to Tell Stories.
32.    Learn How to Heal.
33.    Play.
34.    Laugh.
35.    Dream a World.
36.    Help Make a New World Happen.
37.    Hold Someone Close.
38.    Feed a Hungry Person.
39.    Advocate for a Passion.
40.    Trust Someone with Treasure.
41.    Share Faith.
42.    Know History.
43.    Gather Together.
44.    Talk to God as a Friend.
45.    Intercede for Others.
46.    Embrace the World.
47.    Exercise Good Judgment.
48.    Help Form a Child.
49.    Invite Someone Along.
50.    Heal Wounds.
51.    Procrastinate Less.
52.    Write Love Letters to God.
53.    Break Bread with Others.
54.    Search for Understanding.
55.    Allow Love to Grow.
56.    Enjoy Music.
57.    Teach Values.
58.    Listen to Stories
59.    Offer Hospitality.
60.    Imagine a New Future.
61.    Discuss More. Argue Less.
62.    Read.
63.    Practice Lovingkindness.
64.    Keep Promises.
65.    Covenant Relationships.
66.    Part Ways as Friends.
67.    Return Home Regularly.
68.    Be a Mentor.
69.    Sit With the Sick.
70.    Bury the Bodies.
71.    Plant Flowers.
72.    Be Less Jealous.
73.    Walk in the Woods.
74.    Tell About Jesus.
75.    Heal the Earth.
76.    Slow Down.
77.    Share Wisdom.
78.    Honor Servants & Protectors.
79.    Treasure My Body.
80.    Fall in Love.
81.    Help Others Learn.
82.    Use Energy Wisely.
83.    Sabbath Time.
84.    Be Less Vulgar.
85.    Be Faithfull in Relationships.
86.    Cherish Family.
87.    Demand Equality.
88.    Break Down Barriers.
89.    Seek Out the Holy.
90.    Form Circles of Trust.
91.    Plan for the Future.
92.    Envision Change.
93.    Confess Wrongdoing.
94.    Make Restitution.
95.    Offer Forgiveness.
96.    Grow in Love.
97.    Value Selflessness.
98.    Commit to a Way of Life.
99.    Raise Children Well.
100. Find and Share Joy.
101. Praise God.

Saturday, November 24, 2012

Advent Stirrings


Stir up, we beseech thee, O Lord, the wills of thy faithful people; that they, plenteously bringing forth the fruit of good works, may of thee be plenteously rewarded; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. BCP 1549

Happy Advent!  The prayer quoted above is from the Book of Common Prayer, 1549 and echoes of it are recalled in the Collect for the Third Sunday of Advent:

Stir up your power, O Lord, and with great might come among us; and, because we are sorely hindered by our sins, let your bountiful grace and mercy speedily help and deliver us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.

Stir up….

Are you stirred up???

For some of us the “stir up” prayer is a reminder of the Advent message to recollect and recall the continuing salvation story. The same God who stirred up nothingness and created a universe, then stirred up John the Baptist to begin crying in the wilderness, stirred up the shepherds and the magi to follow a star, and stirred up the hearts of many to follow and worship the incarnate King.

Are you stirred up???

For those in the Church of an earlier age, the “stir up” prayer was a reminder to get ready – to prepare those recipes that required time to age and mature for the Christmas feast. Christmas would not be the same without the work of preparation. Advent brings with it a call to stir up our lives with a leaven that rises over time.

Are you stirred up???

Really are YOU stirred up? Is there a part of you that is growing and expanding? Are you feeding and nurturing the part of you that needs to see new life? Is your spirit breathing in all that is around you in a way that sustains you spiritually?

Are you stirred up???

Are you praying that the same God who created our universe stirs up on you something that will grow and flourish? Are you prepared to live with the realities of new life, new hope, and new challenges?

Advent is upon us and it is my pray that God will use this time to stir up in us the desire to participate more fully in God’s Mission in the world. That new things will grow up and come to life in this place and this community. I invite you to a prayerful and holy Advent, and share with you the Advent bidding prayer from our Book of Occasional Services:

Beloved in Christ, in this season of Advent, let it be our care and delight to prepare ourselves to hear again the message of the Angels, and in heart and mind to go even unto Bethlehem, to see the Babe lying in a manger.

Let us read and mark in Holy Scripture the tale of the loving purposes of God from the first days of our disobedience unto the glorious Redemption brought us by his holy Child; and let us look forward to the yearly remembrance of his birth with hymns and songs of praise.

But first, let us pray for the needs of the whole world; for peace and goodwill over all the earth; for the mission and unity of the Church for which he died, and especially in this country and within this city.

And because this of all things would rejoice his heart, let us at this time remember in his name the poor and the helpless; the hungry and the oppressed; the sick and those who mourn; the lonely and the unloved; the aged and the little children; and all those who know not the Lord Jesus, or who love him not, or who by sin have grieved his heart of love.

Lastly, let us remember before God his pure and lowly Mother, and all those who rejoice with us, but upon another shore and in a greater light, that multitude which no one can number, whose hope was in the Word made flesh, and whom, in this Lord Jesus, we for evermore are one.

The Almighty God bless us with his grace; Christ give us the joys of everlasting life; and unto the fellowship of the citizens above may the King of Angels bring us all. Amen.

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

What Would It Take To Make You A Saint?


What would it take to make you a saint?

It is a simple question, really. And our answers say so much about us.

“I would have to be a better person…”

“I would have to clean up my language, and stop drinking so much, and work harder at…”

“I would have to go to church much more and give more to support God’s mission…”

What would it take to make you a saint?

So often we think that in order to be a saint or to be loved and accepted by God we need to be something other than what we already are. We carry the burden of our daily lives, our jobs, our obligations, our plans for the future, and our guilt about the past and sometimes wonder what it would be like to be out from under pressure of it all. If we could finally get it all right, we would have charmed lives and worthy of sainthood.

But that is not being a saint.

Being a saint is about living lives filled with the grace of God. Part of living a grace-filled life is a decision to embrace God’s undying love for us. Love for us that is shared no matter what with absolutely everyone.  We don’t earn God’s love or God’s favor with our good works. God’s lovingkindness was with us before we even considered joining in Gods mission in the world. Everything that we do is in response to God’s love – not an obligation to be repaid or a privilege to be earned.

Are you aware of God’s love for you and are you living your life in response to that love?   

They lived not only in ages past; there are hundreds of thousands still.

The world is bright with the joyous saints who love to do Jesus' will.

You can meet them in school, on the street, in the store, in church, by the sea, in the house next door;

they are saints of God, whether rich or poor,  and I mean to be one too.

--Lesbia Scott

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

A Meditation on the Third Anniversary of Ordination






I remember visiting them in my youth, those magnificent churches with the vaulted ceilings, the stone pillars reaching upward seemingly to touch the heavens, and the long aisles that would deliver me to the very throne of God. Later, I would read how the architects and builders of these monuments had hoped to give us a foretaste of the grace and grandeur of heaven itself.



The Sunday worship that I remember was vastly different but it warmed me no less. I would sit Sunday by Sunday in what I learned was an upturned boat complete with a keel running from stem to stern. I would count the rows of dark wood that made up the plank on frame construction and be reminded that the Church was a lifeboat for people like me. We would ride out the storms of our world huddled together in a boat Jesus himself made for us to carry us safely to the heavenly shores.



I’m just now learning how deeply this image lives within me as I struggle with others in the work of visioning a new image of Church. I can’t help but think that much of my time is spent bailing that fragile boat, plugging leaks, and mopping up messes. I wonder what message our tired old buildings give to those who come to worship on Sunday mornings.



Perhaps the builders of these upturned ships were not building lifeboats, but arks? Arks built to carry us through the storm searching for a place to land and to disembark? Maybe instead of being run aground like a poorly captained ocean liner, we are finally making landfall in a recreated world that we hardly recognize, and there is only an olive branch to remind us of what was and to point us to what is to come.



I can’t imagine what that first pitiful ark must have been like after forty days and nights on the windswept ocean packed to the gills with everything and every being needed to sustain life. I don’t want to think about the devastation and destruction they found amid the sprouting new life. Perhaps it was not coincidence that they were moved to look upward to God’s sign – the bow – in the sky above them.



Outside my window, folks are lining up in a neat line that wraps around the church buildings. Men and women, grandmothers and sons, workers and old folks are waiting for the arrival of food that will carry them through the weeks ahead.



It is time for us to get off the boat.

Monday, January 30, 2012

Missioner's Report for 2011



Dear Friends,

Looking back on the past year I am reminded of Jesus’ words, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me.” Trust in God, and also trust in me. Jesus said this to his disciples just prior to his going to the cross. He knew his disciples would face perilous times; life in the days ahead would be subject to doubts, disappointments, failures, challenges, and even persecution. In the face of all of that, he said “trust in me!” He prayed for them, promised that the Holy Spirit would come to guide, strengthen, and protect them. Jesus’ very last words to his disciples were, “Remember I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”

In the past year, we have faced our share of challenges and many of us began with the hope that 2012 will be less exciting and more serene. After all, what are the chances of a repeat of a year that began with record level snow, followed by a hurricane turned tropical storm, which culminated in a bizarre autumn snowstorm that crippled our region. In the midst of this we went about the busyness of engaging in mission and ministry in this place and worked to envision and discern a new way of being for our parishes and our life together as the Greater Hartford Regional Ministry.

For many of us it has been a year of “what will happen next???” and the what next has included personal challenges of involving the lives and health of loved ones or the financial security of families and friends. There have been profound losses and difficult challenges.

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me.”

In the midst of these challenges, there have been wonderful opportunities and amazing blessings. We have come to know and depend on each other in new ways and have grown from the experiences we have shared.

We have worshipped God Sunday by Sunday and remained faithful in our baptismal vows, “to continue in the apostles’ teaching and fellowship and in the prayers.” Our worship each week is made possible by the devoted work of our liturgical coordinators, organists, choirs, lectors, liturgical assistants, altar guild members and sacristans, ushers and greeters, and those who work to make our churches beautiful and welcoming. In addition to our worship as a parish community we have been blessed to have joined in worshipping with the GHRM community for special liturgies and celebrations. Our evolving Transfiguration liturgies and personal Ascension Day liturgy, and our faith filled and beloved Easter Vigil and (snow cancelled) All Saints’ Day services are a reminder of the important Episcopal and Anglican traditions we share and our commitment to liturgy that meets the needs of our community. We have joined with our brothers and sisters in Christ from the Bolton Ecumenical Council and the East Hartford Interfaith Ministries for special Thanksgiving services and for the first time, a service of remembrance on the anniversary of September 11th.






We have also enriched our relationships with the Episcopal parishes in our area through our participation in East of the River, a network of collaborating parishes in our area. We were the first parish to host a very successful Lenten program culminated in more than seventy Episcopalians gathering for dinner and a program on healing from a variety of perspectives. Young people and adults from our parishes have also participated in youth programming, including “Party at the Pit” and a day in Boston. Plans for working together are evolving and we will continue to work to find new ways for the clergy and laity of our parishes to share fellowship and resources.

The parishes of GHRM have offered many opportunities for spiritual growth and formation in the past year. Godly Play continues to be a hallmark of the ministry at St. George’s and the leaders of Rhythms of Grace are working to adapt this faith experience for those with special needs of all ages. St. John’s has blessed the East Hartford community with concerts and recitals which have enriched us and our neighbors. The Blue Christmas service is a growing reminder to all of us that Christmas is a time not only for celebration, but also for ministry to those for whom the holidays present difficult challenges and pain. All Saints’ commitment to our pets and their companions continues in our St. Francis’ Day liturgy and the Blessing of Animals. With Phil Hovey’s leadership, a Lenten quiet morning was held at St. George’s exploring the writings of Parker Palmer. The Last Tuesday Book Group continues to meet faithfully for free flowing discussion and Pricilla McKenzie’s wonderful scones. John Williams and Phil Hovey continue to work with our Lutheran colleagues to provide seasonal bible studies that expand relationship with our partner denomination.

Before you think that we are a group all about study, let me remind you of some of the many opportunities for fellowship and celebration that we have shared. Two of our parishes (All Saints’ and St. George’s) share a special talent for cooking corned beef and Ed Gallagher, Sandy McGraw, and Carol Freschlin & Company have been wonderful stewards of our fellowship time together and our coffee hours. My memories of our times together are punctuated with wonderful tastes and flavors. Challah bread, soda bread, Vermont cheese, apple pies, potato leek soup, roast beef, cheesecake, baked beans, jellies and jams, chili, meatball subs, scones, macaroni and cheese, waffles, and far too many cookies and cakes to mention. The musical talents of our parishioners and their families and friends is also a blessing and we have enjoyed hours of listening and listening and singing along. Pete Culmo’s auction has been a wild time together for members of all three of our parishes. Our Senior Saints’ led by Ward Edgerton and Charlie Kendrick, have enjoyed each other’s company and gathered for picnics, parties, Christmas caroling, the first annual Sr. Saints’ golf tournament and another first, a poetry slam! All these memories serve as a reminder of how much we care for each other and how important it is for us to be together.

There have been so many people working together to make our parishes the places that we love, that it would be impossible to name them all inside the space of two pages. But just a mention of some of those who have faithfully led our parishes, Denise Robillard, our Inter Parish Council chair, and Betty Caruso and Pete Culmo, Denise Robillard and Bonnie Matthews, and John Williams and Sandy McGraw, our wardens have served with dedication during this time of transition. Their dedication to God and to our parishes is without question or reservation. The members of the Working Group of Twelve, representatives of our parishes tasked with the formulation of a vision for our shared life together – Shirley Finney, John Williams, Sandy McGraw, Paul Finney, Jean Pineo, Sue Mullen, Chuck Dziedzic, Ward Edgerton, Betty Caruso, Pete Culmo, Pat Matrick, and Phil Hovey – are working diligently and faithfully to envision a new way for us to work together to advance God’s Mission of Reconciliation and Reconciliation in the world. The future remains unclear, but the truth of Jesus’ words remain, “Remember I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”


“Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me.”